Whoa Whoa Whoa.

This is probably not the forum where I should be doing this...but it's my blog so I get to.

So my recent ex-boyfriend added me (back) on Facebook today. Not to get into all the hairy details (..ya really want 'em, email me)...I was really taken aback. I've been trying to figure out if/what I should write back to him. Here is what I really want to say...and don't know if I will or not.

Dear *****--

Do you not understand how much you hurt me? Can you even fathom, just a bit what it must have been like to be ME in this situation? I cried for weeks after all was said and done. I let it eat at me forever. Then I decided to move on.

I needed not to see ***** and so-and-so are now friends... ***** has added/been tagged in new pictures ... ***** has changed their status. To constantly be bombarded with your name, your picture every day.

I don't want to be just another casualty. I want to be the one who got away.

I want to be stronger than that. I want to be my own person again. I want to be ME. The real me. The one girl revolution. The one with enough fire, sass and charm to accomplish everything I want in life.

So I'm not sure if I'll add you back...or when. But know, that it's not like it used to be. I'm me. I'm my own. I take care of me first. So thanks for the thought. We'll see.

Sincerely,
The best thing that ever happened to you.

p.s. **mostly for lyndsishae: my ipod has been on a playlist called "one girl revolution" since i got all those songs you recommended. you are bomb, woman.

6 comments

  1. YOU ARE THE ONE GIRL REVOLUTION!!!love ya girl, and not that i have the whole story, but i say forget about exes, they forgot about you....

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  2. yeah, bruce works with nicole's husband on temple square. they're awesome-a ton of fun!

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  3. seriously! you tell that !@#$%^&*()(*&^%$#!$#...i love being goofy. you are the one that got away, and you should be proud that you're better than that poor girl who's still so trapped. i know you to be much stronger than you will admit, so keep it up tiger!!!;-}

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  4. I like the "ignore" button for similar reasons! Remember to add a friend is nice, to ignore a nuisance, devine! (ok so that's not really a saying, but whatever.)

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  5. im pretty sure i know who you are talking about and im very proud of you. stick it out. wall to walls are never good news. haha i love you so much!

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  6. I love it! Props to you for being so strong. you don't need him! He is a well im pretty sure you already know how I feel about him! Love you! Wish we could play :( and bash about boys in our apts!

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